Home ~  Contact Us  ~  Sobriety Gifts

 

Problem with Drinking?
Twelve questions only you can answer

Copyright © 1973 by A.A. World Services, Inc.

IS A.A. FOR YOU?

Only you can decide whether you want to give A.A.a try
—whether you think it can help you.

We who are in A.A. came because we finally gave up trying to control our drinking.
We still hated to admit that we could never drink safely. Then we heard from other
A.A. members that we were sick. (We thought so for years!) We found out that many
people suffered from the same feelings of guilt and loneliness and hopelessness that we did.
We found out that we had these feelings because we had the disease of alcoholism.

We decided to try and face up to what alcohol had done to us. Here are some of the
questions we tried to answer honestly. If we answered YES to four or more questions,
we were in deep trouble with our drinking. See how you do. Remember, there is no
disgrace in facing up to the fact that you have a problem.

Answer YES or NO to the following questions.

1 - Have you ever decided to stop drinking for a week or so,
but only lasted for a couple of days?

Most of us in A.A. made all kinds of promises to ourselves and to our families. We could not keep them.
Then we came to A.A. A.A. said: "Just try not to drink today." (If you do not drink today,
you cannot get drunk today.)

 

Yes No

2 - Do you wish people would mind their own business about your drinking
-- stop telling you what to do?
In A.A. we do not tell anyone to do anything. We just talk about our own drinking,
the trouble we got into, and how we stopped. We will be glad to help you, if you want us to.

 

Yes No

3 - Have you ever switched from one kind of drink to another in the
hope that this would keep you from getting drunk?

We tried all kinds of ways. We made our drinks weak. Or just drank beer. Or we did not drink cocktails.
Or only drank on weekends. You name it, we tried it. But if we drank anything
with alcohol in it, we usually got drunk eventually.

Yes No

4 - Have you had to have an eye-opener upon awakening during the past year?
Do you need a drink to get started, or to stop shaking?
This is a pretty sure sign that you are not drinking "socially."

 

Yes No

5 - Do you envy people who can drink without getting into trouble?
At one time or another, most of us have wondered why we were not like most people,
who really can take it or leave it.

 

Yes No

6 - Have you had problems connected with drinking during the past year?
Be honest! Doctors say that if you have a problem with alcohol and keep on drinking,
it will get worse -- never better. Eventually, you will die, or end up in an institution for the
rest of your life. The only hope is to stop drinking.

 

Yes No

7 - Has your drinking caused trouble at home?
Before we came into A.A., most of us said that it was the people or problems at
home that made us drink. We could not see that our drinking just made everything worse.
It never solved problems anywhere or anytime.

 

Yes No

8 - Do you ever try to get "extra" drinks at a party because you do not get enough?
Most of us used to have a "few" before we started out if we thought it was going to
be that kind of party. And if drinks were not served fast enough, we would go
some place else to get more.

 

Yes No

9 - Do you tell yourself you can stop drinking any time you want to,
even though you keep getting drunk when you don't mean to?
Many of us kidded ourselves into thinking that we drank because we wanted to.
After we came into A.A., we found out that once we started to drink, we couldn't stop.

 

Yes No

10 - Have you missed days of work or school because of drinking?
Many of us admit now that we "called in sick" lots of times when the truth was that
we were hung-over or on a drunk.

 

Yes No

11 - Do you have "blackouts"?
A "blackout" is when we have been drinking hours or days which we cannot remember.
When we came to A.A., we found out that this is a pretty sure sign of alcoholic drinking.

 

Yes No

12 - Have you ever felt that your life would be better if you did not drink?
Many of us started to drink because drinking made life seem better, at least for a while.
 By the time we got into A.A., we felt trapped. We were drinking to live and living to drink.
We were sick and tired of being sick and tired.

Yes No
 


Did you answer YES four or more times?

If so, you are probably in trouble with alcohol. Why do we say this? Because thousands
of people in A.A. have said so for many years. They found out the truth about
themselves „ the hard way.

But again, only you can decide whether you think A.A. is for you. Try to keep an open
mind on the subject. If the answer is YES, we will be glad to show you how we
stopped drinking ourselves. Just call.

A.A. does not promise to solve your life's problems. But we can show you how we are
learning to live without drinking "one day at a time." We stay away from that "first drink."
If there is no first one, there cannot be a tenth one. And when we got rid of alcohol, we
found that life became much more manageable.

ALCOHOLICS ANONYMOUS® is a fellowship of men and women who share their experience,
strength and hope with each other that they may solve their common problem and help
others to recover from alcoholism.

  • The only requirement for membership is a desire to stop drinking. There are no dues
    or fees for A.A. membership; we are self-supporting through our own contributions.
     

  • A.A. is not allied with any sect, denomination, politics, organization or institution;
    does not wish to engage in any controversy; neither endorses nor opposes any causes.
    Our primary purpose is to stay sober and help other alcoholics to achieve sobriety.

     

    Information on Alcoholics Anonymous

    FOR ANYONE NEW COMING TO A.A.,

    FOR ANYONE REFERRING PEOPLE TO A.A.

    Click Here

 Home  ~  Contact Us  ~  Sobriety Gifts
 

   Keep Coming Back!