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310 Twelve Concepts
p-18
Our entire A.A. program rests upon
the principle of mutual trust. We trust God, we
trust A.A., & we trust each other. Therefore, we trust
our leaders in World Service.
The "Right of Decision" that we offer them is not only
the practical means by which
they may act & lead effectively, but it is also the
symbol of our implicit confidence.
310 Twelve & Twelve p-27/28
If you arrive at A.A. with no
religious convictions, you can, if you wish, make
A.A. itself or even your A.A. group your "Higher Power".
Here is a large group of
people who have solved their alcohol problem. In this
respect they are certainly a power
greater than you. Even this minimum of faith will be
enough.
Many members who have crossed the
threshold just this way will tell you that,
once across, their faith broadened & deepened. Relieved
of the alcohol obsession,
their lives unaccountably transformed, they came to
believe in a Higher Power, &
most of them began to talk of God.
311 Grapevine 1961
Though the variations were many, my
main theme was always "How godawful I
am!" just as I often exaggerated my modest attainments
by pride, so I exaggerated my
defects through guilt. I would race about, confessing
all ( & a great deal more ) to
whoever would listen. Believe it or not, I took this
widespread exposure of my sins to
be great humility on my part, & considered it a great
spiritual asset & consolation!
But later on I realized at depth that
the great harms I had done others were not
truly regretted. These episodes were merely the basis
for storytelling & exhibitionism.
With this realization came the beginning of a certain
amount of humility.
312 letter 1943
Honesty with ourselves & others gets
us sober, but it is tolerance that keeps us
that way.
Experience shows that few alcoholics
will long stay away from a group just
because they do not like the way it is run. Most return
& adjust themselves to
whatever conditions they must. Some go to a different
group or form a new one.
In other words, once an alcoholic
fully realizes that he cannot get well alone, he
will somehow find a way to get well & stay well in the
company of others. It has been
that way from the beginning of A.A. & probably always
will be so.
313 Alcoholics Anonymous p-12
When the thought was expressed that
there might be a God personal to me, I did
not like the idea. So my friend Ebby made what then
seemed a novel suggestion. He
said, "Why don't you choose your own conception of God?"
That statement hit me hard. It melted
the icy intellectual mountain in whose
shadow I had lived & shivered many years. I stood in the
sunlight at last.
313 A.A. Comes Of Age p-45
It may be possible to find
explanations of spiritual experiences such as ours, but
I
have often tried to explain my own & have succeeded only
in giving the story of it. I
know the feeling it gave me & the results it has
brought, but I realize I may never
fully understand its deeper why & how.
314 Twelve & Twelve p-23
When our membership was small, we
dealt with "low bottom cases" only. Many
less desperate alcoholics tried A.A., but did not
succeed because they could not make
the admission of their hopelessness.
In the following years, this changed.
Alcoholics who still had their health, their
families, their jobs, & even two cars in the garage,
began to recognize their
alcoholism. As this trend grew, they were joined by
young people who were scarcely
more than potential alcoholics. How could people such as
these take the first step?
By going back in our own drinking
histories, we showed them that years before we
realized it we were out of control, that our drinking
even then was no mere habit, that it
was indeed the beginning of a fatal progression.
315 Alcoholics Anonymous p-44/45
If a mere code of morals or a better
philosophy of life were sufficient to overcome
alcoholism, many of us would have recovered long ago.
But we found that such codes
& philosophies did not save us, no matter how much we
tried. We could wish to be
moral, we could wish to be philosophically comforted, in
fact, we could will these
things with all our might, but the power needed for
change was not there. Our human
resources, as marshaled by the will, were not
sufficient; they failed utterly.
Lack of power: That was our dilemma.
We had to find a power by which we could
live - & it had to be a Power greater than ourselves.
316 Grapevine March 1946
Almost every newspaper reporter who
covers A.A. complains, at first, of the
difficulty of writing his story without names. But he
quickly forgets this difficulty when
he realizes that here is a group of people who care
nothing for acclaim.
Probably this is the first time in
his life he has ever reported on an organization
that wants no personalized publicity. Cynic though he
may be, this obvious sincerity
quickly transforms him into a friend of A.A..
316 Twelve & Twelve p-187
Moved by the spirit of anonymity, we
try to give up our natural desires for
personal distinction as A.A. members, both among fellow
alcoholics & before the
general public. As we lay aside these very human
aspirations, we believe that each of us
takes part in the weaving of a protective mantle which
covers our whole society &
under which we may grow & work in unity.
317 Twelve Concepts p-41
Vision is, I think, the ability to
make good estimates, both for the immediate &
for the more distant future. Some might feel this sort
of striving to be heresy against
"One day at a time". But that valuable principle really
refers to our mental &
emotional lives & means chiefly that we are not
foolishly to repine over the past nor
wishfully to daydream about the future.
As individuals & as a fellowship, we
shall surely suffer if we cast the whole job
of planning for tomorrow onto a fatuous idea of
providence. God's real providence has
endowed us human beings with a considerable capability
for foresight, & He
evidently expects us to use it. Of course, we shall
often miscalculate the future in whole
or in part, but that is better than to refuse to think
at all.
318 Twelve & Twelve p-57/58
Through the vital fifth step, we
began to get the feeling that we could be forgiven,
no matter what we had thought or done.
Often it was while working on this
step with our sponsors or spiritual advisers that
we first felt truly able to forgive others, no matter
how deeply we felt they had wronged
us.
Our moral inventory had persuaded us
that all-round forgiveness was desirable,
but it was only when we resolutely tackled step five
that we inwardly knew we would
be able to receive forgiveness & give it too.
319 A.A. Comes Of Age p-105
Many people wonder how A.A. can
function under a seeming anarchy. Other
societies have to have law & force & sanction &
punishment, administered by
authorized people. Happily for us, we found that we need
no human authority whatever.
We have two authorities which are far more effective.
One is benign, the other malign.
There is God, our Father, who very
simply says, "I am waiting for you to do my
will". The other authority is named John Barleycorn, &
he says, "You had better do
God's will or I will kill you".
319 A.A. Today p-11
The A.A. Traditions are neither
rules, regulations, nor laws. We obey them
willingly because we ought to & because we want to.
Perhaps the secret of their
power lies in the fact that these life giving
communications spring out of living
experience & are rooted in love.
320 Alcoholics Anonymous p-60/61
Most people try to live by
self-propulsion. Each person is like an actor who wants
to run the whole show & is forever trying to arrange the
lights, the scenery, & the
rest of the players in his own way. If his arrangements
would only stay put, if only
people would do as he wished, the show would be great.
What usually happens? The show does
not come off very well. Admitting he may
be somewhat at fault, he is sure that other people are
more to blame. He becomes angry,
indignant, self-pitying.
Is he not really a self-seeker even
when trying to be useful? Is he not a victim of
the delusion that he can wrest satisfaction & happiness
out of this world if he only
manages well?
321 Grapevine June 1958
As the doubter tries the process of
prayer, he should begin to add up the results. If
he persists, he will almost surely find more serenity,
more tolerance, less fear, & less
anger. He will acquire a quiet courage, the kind that in
not tension ridden. He can look
at "failure" & "success" for what these really are.
Problems & calamity will begin to
mean his instruction, instead of his destruction. He
will feel freer & saner.
The idea that he may have been
hypnotizing himself by autosuggestion will
become laughable. His sense of purpose & of direction
will increase. His anxieties
will commence to fade. His physical health will be
likely to improve. Wonderful &
unaccountable things will start to happen. Twisted
relations in his family & on the
outside will improve surprisingly.
322 Twelve & Twelve p-67
Procrastination is really sloth in
five syllables.
322 letter 1952
My observation is that some people
can get by with a certain amount of
postponement, but few can live with outright rebellion.
322 letter 1950
We have succeeded in confronting many
a problem drinker with that awful
alternative, "This we A.A.s do, or we die". Once this
much is firmly in his mind, more
drinking only turns the coil tighter.
As many an alcoholic has said, "I
came to the place where it was either into A.A.
or out the window. So here I am!"
323 letter 1960
More than most people, I think,
alcoholics want to know who they are, what this
life is about, whether they have a divine origin & an
appointed destiny, & whether
there is a system of cosmic justice & love.
It is the experience of many of us in
the early stages of drinking to feel that we
have had glimpses of the absolute & a heightened feeling
of identification with the
cosmos. While these glimpses & feeling doubtless have a
validity, they are deformed
& finally swept away in the cosmical, spiritual &
emotional damage wrought by the
alcohol itself.
In A.A., & in many religious
approaches, alcoholics find a great deal more of
what they merely glimpsed & felt while trying to grope
their way toward God in
alcohol.
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